If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.There is no such thing as failure. There are only results. Most of us have been programmed to fear this thing called failure. Successful people do not see failure. They do not believe in it. It does not compute. Successful people are not people who do not fail, but people who know that if they try something and it does not give them what they want, they have had a learning experience. They use what they have learned and simply try something else. They take new actions and produce new results.
"Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt." William ShakespeareWinners, in the market and elsewhere, understand that if you try something and you do not get the outcome you want it's simply feedback. You use that information to make finer distinctions next time. That's why we analyze our investments, both good ones and bad ones, to make finer distinctions on what went right and what went wrong. It's feedback for next time. We learn from our successes as well as our failures. Buckminster Fuller wrote,
"Whatever humans have learned had to be learned as a consequence only of trial and error experience. Humans have learned only through mistakes."And I might add the mistakes of others.